June 29, 2018
In view of God's
mercy, offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God-this
is your true and proper worship. Romans 12:1
God's forgiveness was
given for us to pursue His holiness, not our 'happiness'.
Over the years, I’ve attended a lot of funerals. A few for my family, but most for friends who
have passed away, or relatives of friends.
In most cases, there is a part of the funeral where people get the
chance to express stories, kind words, or memories of the one who parted. It usually is the memorable part of the
ceremony, and is often one of the most helpful elements for the family.
I’ve listened to many of those comments, and they all tend
to have a common thread: happiness. Either the deceased person brought happiness
to people, or had things that made him/her happy. Most of the stories tend to talk about either
good things the person did (to make others happy), or good things that happened
to them (to make them happy). Somehow,
because we assume that the goal in life is happiness, then talking about ways
happiness happened means they met the goal.
But what if happiness wasn’t really the goal?
Imagine if God was conducting an ‘entrance service’ at the
same time we were holding a ‘departure service’. Imagine what God would be looking for about
the person. I don’t think it would be
happiness that would top God’s agenda. According
to Jesus, God would be interested in what our ‘holiness’ record was. But holiness wouldn’t be a religious
checklist, holiness would be a lifestyle.
God would want to hear the stories of what we believed and did about His
Son. God would look for our acts of
obedience out of love for Jesus. God
would want to know what we did to help others grow their holiness – even more
than their happiness.
When God made man, He made him in God’s own image – that image
was about holiness. When God formed Eve,
it was because man was not good alone – marriage was God’s method of growing
holiness in each other. When God saved
Noah, it was to rebuild the world’s holiness.
When God laid out the Ten Commandments, it was to define holiness. Story after story shows that the goal was
holiness, not happiness. Holiness leads
to permanent happiness. Jesus affirmed that often, calling us to Be
Holy.
So if we are serious about joining God’s family, know that
it comes with sacrificing the world’s lust for happiness and pursuing what God
intended all along – holiness. Lay down
your life as a living sacrifice, HOLY and Pleasing to God, and you will not
only worship God well, but you will find the joy that creates lasting
happiness.
It’s time to change the goal. And maybe it will also change the
conversations about you at your funeral someday. They won’t talk as much about happiness, but
about the inspiration and lifestyle of holiness you left behind. That would be the best funeral story ever!